Do You Have An Eternal Family?

I have a pretty awesome “little” brother. I love calling him my “baby” brother because it really irritates him. Even though he’s one year younger than me, he stands seven inches taller than me. He’s very hard-working and it seems that everything he touches turns to gold. I think one of the reasons he’s so successful is because he had to be responsible at a very young age. When we were both in middle school our father was seriously injured in an accident at the factory where he worked. He was unable to work for many years and as a result, my brother started working full-time at a local dairy at the age of 14. There were times when he helped my parents with the mortgage payment and gave them money for our older brothers while they were on their missions.

As far as his personality, my little brother can be intimidating when you first meet him. But, once you get to know him you find out how compassionate and awesome he is. If you have met my little brother, you would remember him, he’s just that kind of guy. One time when I lived on the east coast, nearly 3,000 miles away from our home town, I saw someone with an Idaho license plate at a gas station. When I started talking to him, I found out that he knew my little brother. As I said, if you have met him, you don’t easily forget him.

My brother and I have lived very similar lives. Both of us were sexually abused as children. Both of us committed sexual sins with our first spouses before we got married. Both of us desired to have an eternal family, so we became worthy to enter the temple and had our marriages sealed for time and eternity. Both of us, no matter how hard we tried, couldn’t hold our marriages together. Even though both of our spouses were unfaithful to us, we spent years trying to work things out. Looking back, it’s easy to see that we both simply made horrible choices for marriage partners. Even though we tried everything we could to make our marriages work, our spouses still abandoned us. For both my brother and I, we lived some very difficult years with lots of emotional pain and hurt. Both of us lost our testimony in LDS prophets and left the Church. We both spent several years without any church or religion.

After the Holy Spirit brought me to faith over 14 years ago, I desperately wanted my little brother to know of the joy I had found in Jesus. I shared with him the news of forgiveness as often as he would let me, but he wasn’t interested. I never ceased praying for him. I always had this vision that when he came to faith, I would be the one that led him to the truth. But God, in His wisdom, had His own plan. My little brother’s second wife is a Christian. Like me, she has spent many years in prayer, asking God to bring him to faith. I praise the Lord that He has heard our prayers and brought my brother to faith!! It happened a few months ago when he felt something missing in his life and started attending a Christian Church.

My blood brother is now my spiritual brother and a member of Heavenly Father’s eternal family!!! When I was LDS I always dreamed of being worthy enough to have an eternal family. Both my brother and I were born under the covenant. Our four older siblings are faithful LDS members and believe they will live eternally with their families. But the LDS teaching about eternal families is a mirage. There is only one eternal family and that is God’s! You become worthy to enter His eternal family the moment the Holy Spirit brings you to faith! At that moment, you become a child of God and inherit ALL of His eternal blessings.

I praise my Lord and Savior for choosing to save the weak and base things of this world (1 Corinthians 1). Because of our sinfulness, my little brother and I were well aware that we desperately needed a Savior whose blood covered over our every sin. We knew we could not gain forgiveness with our own efforts. Our siblings, whose lives seem pretty “good” in comparison to ours, still reject the Savior who did everything for them. Even though it is impossible, they still believe they can be worthy enough to gain eternal life with their own faith and works.

Do you want to spend eternity with members of your family? Then turn to Jesus and trust that His blood covers over all of your sins. Teach your children the wonderful message that the gift of eternal life is granted solely through faith alone. Then, spend the rest of your life sharing Jesus with those who don’t know that His blood gained forgiveness for all their sins!



  1. catzgalore said,

    April 25, 2009 at 8:38 am

    Today I go to celebrate my son’s 30th birthday. Today I will gather my family around (mostly Christians!) and ask them to give a blessing of prayer over my son. I am thankful for my family, but that is not my highest goal in life, to do everything Right so I can be with my family, I strive to be like Jesus to spend eternity in His presence. And yes I want to share Jesus more. I am not always good at that. But today– I will glorify the Lord even though the whole family may not agree.

  2. catzgalore said,

    May 7, 2009 at 9:58 am

    You know, I think I am getting it. Mormon version: Jesus’ death “saves” us, but we have to do our part, and if we don’t, we will be “saved” but not “glorified” or “exalted”… so we traditional Christians will be in heaven, but we won’t be able to be in LDS heaven, which is much nicer.
    Depending on what time in history you lived in, you had to do the following:
    be married in the temple– “sealed for time and eternity” If you are not, you will not experience the fullness of the gospel.
    If you are a man, live an exemplary life, and have more than one wife
    If you are a woman, have a husband– because you can’t get to heaven without him.
    You can help those already dead be saved by being baptized in their place. Therefore, you can have your family with you whether they want it or not.

    The reward is that you can become Kings and Queens, Priests and Priestesses of other worlds.

    The earth is not the only place there are people. It was also not God-breathed, but “reorganized” from what already existed. God did not create the earth, Jesus (or Jehovah and Michael depending on where you read) did. God’s name is Elohim. He lives on a planet.

    I know it sounds like I am poking fun. I am not trying to. I am just incredulous. I didn’t know all this before. I have a question: if you grow up in the LDS church, when do you learn these things? Do you just BELIEVE and HAVE FAITH that all these things are true? I think if my parents had taught me that I would have bitten hook line and sinker too. I grew up in a traditional denomination– which I rejected at 17. But the LDS church is much stronger than that. From what I see (my daughter in law’s family) one wouldn’t DARE leave. It would mean leaving the family. My parents didn’t care one way or the other!

    Praying for the LDS that are seeking– those that are beginning to see the truth. Praying God’s grace upon them, that their eyes would be opened.

  3. geoff456 said,

    May 17, 2009 at 3:05 pm

    Hi Catz,

    you said: “You know, I think I am getting it. Mormon version: Jesus’ death “saves” us, but we have to do our part, and if we don’t, we will be “saved” but not “glorified” or “exalted”… so we traditional Christians will be in heaven, but we won’t be able to be in LDS heaven, which is much nicer.”

    sorry to say, but i don’t think you “have it” after all. Here is my suggestion: my family took the missionary discussions so that they understood what i was “getting into”. they did not join the LDS church, but they understood it so much better. i think you are picking up things here and there, but never really getting the whole picture.
    the missionaries are very nice and if you explained to them what your reasons are, they could answer questions and help you understand all while respecting your religion and your opinions.
    LDS people are not weird and the gospel is pretty straitforward.

    does your daughter in law know that you have questions? she would be happy to answer them. LDS people are pretty used to people having questions and misconceptions. I think she would alot rather talk to you face to face than have you blogging about her life (albeit anonymously) behind her back.
    How wonderful that her family is strong in faith. That speaks highly of them. They would undoubtedly like to understand you better, too. TALK to them!! It could do a lot for your relationships!

    ~geoff (a convert of many years!…still praying for my non-LDS family!)

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